Seven Years

My husband has beaten me to the punch, but this day seven years ago God declared to be the day Justin and I met. I will always be in amazement that we didn’t ever meet until then seeing as we were at a small University and both had many of the same friends. It just goes to show how awesome God is and His timing and His plan. I also believe that it was around this time that I told God that I didn’t think I would ever find someone at GWU for me. Well you know what happens when you try to tell God something that just isn’t in His plan. I’m enormously happy that I was wrong. It was the one and only time I was wrong (right honey?) but I’ll gladly admit it 😉

So as Justin was saying, we met in Nikki and Heather’s dorm room on January 20, 2002 to celebrate Nikki’s birthday (her birthday was the 19th). I went and I’m pretty sure I was bummin it with some sweat pants and pony tail. I wasn’t really expecting to see anyone I didn’t already know. I walked in and was immediately embarrassed about my choice of attire. There was this totally hot guy in there and I looked “rough”. Luckily he didn’t let that distract him haha. Again the following week I returned to celebrate Heather’s birthday also hoping that this guy would be back. To my delight he was.

We started hanging out more and more at basketball games and talking online until the wee hours of the morning (my roommate didn’t appreciate the key clacking I’m sure). It all seems like just a year or two ago that it began and I’m sure that the time will just go by faster and faster but there is no one else I would rather do life with. I love you Justin!

What I learned yesterday

I learned yesterday as we drove from place to place in the snow that Evergreens aren’t necessarily green all year round. Sometimes they are white 😉

Home for Christmas

This past week brought so much joy to Justin and I as we made the trek to NC for Christmas. We weren’t sure at first how things were going to play out with where and when we would be places but it seemed to turn out almost perfect.

We had a rough start to our trip on Friday (19th). It was sleeting, snowing, thundering, lightning, and even hailing on our way out of South Bend. Then came the fog and rain until we reached Kentucky. Java peeked her head inbetween us from time to time going down the road. It was mostly a quiet trip as we anticipated seeing family and friends. We left our boys (Apache and Pixel) at home under the watchful eye of Ed (our lifesaver).

We pulled into Justin’s parents’ driveway around 9:30pm. Saturday we hung out with Stacey going to a few shops and eating lunch. Then we were able to go to Spartanburg with the Sunday School gang to eat at a really nice restaurant. It was so good.

Sunday we got up and drove to Shelby to attend the service at Crestview. I felt like it was our wedding all over again. We were welcomed by so many and there was almost a receiving line before the service began. It was like coming home. Boy have I missed those friends. Justin was able to do something while there that he hasn’t done in quite a long time…he was able to sit in a pew with me during the service (instead of running the sound and music). From there we went with our “Sunday night family” as we call them, to Golden Corral for a feast. We rode around for awhile and then ended up at Heather’s house. She was gracious enough to let us come in to see the work she has done on the house (our former house). It looked so good. The new carpet itself made it look brand new. She did a great job. Roy and Bernie had left earlier that morning for Florida so we didn’t get to see them like we had planned :(. We even got to see Natalie Nevins at the mall for a little while. We’ve really missed that girl too! That night was the Christmas Choir special and my parents drove over to see it with us. It was so good to see them and worship with them again. Then we drove back to Polk County.

Monday brought another trip to Shelby to see our former coworkers and friends. I surprised Cary at lunch with the ol’ gang. It was so nice. I got to see just about everyone. It was different to be in the bookstore and not be working there. They’ve done such a good job at fixing up the place. Justin met with Brandon for lunch and then back to ESI for a visit before picking me back up. We then went to David and Debra’s to see them and their new puppy. I was glad to have some sit down time with them since we weren’t able to see them when the gang came up last month to visit. Then it was back to Polk County.

We got to play with Tailynn a lot while there. She is so precious. I’m so glad we got to hang out with Tera too. She is so cool and easy going. Tuesday was Stacey’s 23rd birthday. We relaxed a bit and then she went out with friends for dinner and we went with David and Lorraine to Hendersonville and then to Outback for dinner. Then we came back and hung out and played games for Stacey’s birthday. It was so fun. It wasn’t even too bad for this old lady to stay up so late. Java had a blast seeing everyone and getting all the attention.

Christmas eve we went up to Justin’s Pa Paw’s to visit and then on to see Chad and Faith and Maitlynn. Then we left again to go to Shelby for Crestview’s Christmas Eve service at 11pm. It was so beautiful. Justin found out last minute that he was to give the Commissioning prayer for the Moscow team leaving the next morning (at the end of the service). He must have been so flustered that when he finished and came back to his seat he went to the pew in front of where we were sitting. Heather was good though and went with the flow and sat with me for the remainder of the service. We were able to give out last hugs and say Merry Christmas before we headed back again to Polk County for bed. I’ll admit…I let out quite a few tears. Sometimes I get so frustrated with myself because I can’t always tell people what I really want to tell them because tears slip out so I just stick with simple words and try not to cry. I truly miss everyone there but I feel blessed to know them and have had the time I did with them. I know they will be lifetime friends.

We went to bed knowing we only had a few short hours of sleep before present time. I think it was 2am or later when we hit the bed. Then at 7:15 ish the parents had to wake the “kids” up haha. We had a great time opening presents. Then we were able to go to the Bailey Christmas party at 12 for about an hour and then it was time to shoot up the road to Brevard to begin our visit with my parents and sisters.

We were able to visit the homes that Kelly works at. It was so good to see them and bring Christmas cheer their way. They all love her so much and so do we. She has a special gift she shares with these people/friends everyday while at work and many times when she isn’t even on the clock.

Walker and Erin were able to come and arrived a few hours after us, in time for dinner. Walker offered the blessing (precious). Walker opened his presents before that of course and after dinner Justin and Walker sat for hours playing with the new Geotracks sets he got. It was too cute. I think they both equally had a good time. I could see the wheels churning in Justin’s mind trying to create the best set up for the tracks.

At one of the meals, Walker was so ready to eat and not everyone was at the table he started singing the blessing and everyone giggled and ran to the table haha. At another meal he said the “God is great..God is good” blessing and halfway through it he said “KK’s eyes are open” and then without skipping a beat kept going with the blessing (KK was watching how cute he was saying the blessing and she got busted haha). Justin asked Walker when he was finished with the blessing, “Walker how did you know KK had her eyes open?” and he said “Because I saw her” and Justin said, “Then that would mean you had your eyes open too right?” and I whispered into Walker’s ear, “Tell him you could feeeel it” and in the cutest voice he said, “I could feeeel it”. Adorable!

The next day we all went on a walk and I got to give Walker a piggy back ride. Somehow it happened to be the point in the walk with the steepest incline haha. I just can’t get over how big he is getting and how smart he is. We went back to Kelly’s homes with Walker and he was a hit. He told them each to have a Happy New Year and showed them the new horses he got from Santa. Later we played RockBand2 on the Xbox we brought with us. Erin sang and played guitar, Justin played guitar and Walker went back and forth between guitar and singing. We thought we were clever for unplugging the guitar and then also the microphone but Walker discovered his mic was not plugged in halfway through the song. I had to plug it into a controller without batteries haha. We did it again on Saturday morning before Erin and Walker had to leave and got it on tape. I even sang a little too…if you can call it that.

Justin was given the job of giving Walker a haircut. That was too precious. Poor kid didn’t like it too much in the end but it was still cool that Uncle Justin gave him a haircut. Then Walker took a bath with his new pirate bath time toys he got from Aunt KK (Kelly).

Saturday was relaxing. Erin and Walker left after lunch 🙁 and later we went and got Kelly’s dog Max and introduced him to Java while out on a walk. They did great on the walk together but were a little uneasy inside. Eventually they were both so tired they left each other alone haha.

Sunday we woke up early and hit the road for the long journey back home around 8am. While Ed was checking on the cats he found at one point our pipes were frozen so we had no water. Then later he told Justin that our pipes busted in the garage so he had to turn the pump off. We weren’t sure exactly what we were in for when we got home but thanks to Ed and Laura it wasn’t so bad. It could have been way worse had they not found it.

Once we got in town around 6:30 or so, Justin quickly assessed the situation. Our sediment filter had busted along with another pipe near the pressure tank. He zoomed to Lowes before it closed at 7 and got all that he thought he needed. It turned out our filter didn’t have a bypass mode so he and Ed went scrounging to find parts (thank you Ed again). Justin thought he had it all taken care of until he took a small swim when the pipe came unglued near one of the elbow joints he put in. We ended up having to wait until the next day and by noon we had a new filter system and pipes as well as WATER :).

It was a crazy journey but a fun one and even though it sounds hectic, it really was quite evenly paced. We are so thankful and blessed to have seen you all and miss you so much. We hope you all have a very Happy New Year.

Happy Birthday Stacey!

Today is my sister-in-law Stacey’s 23rd birthday on the 23rd. I hope you can get all 23 things done today and that you have a blast. I love you! Happy Birthday!

Proud of Stacey

Today at Western Carolina University my Sister-in-law just graduated with a degree in Social Work. We are so proud of her for completing her degree. We know it wasn’t easy. We wish we could have been there today to see her walk across the stage. Congratulations Stacey! We are so happy for you and love you and miss you and can’t wait to see you next week.

My Jesus

Often when I think of Christmas time I also think about Easter time.  The thought popped in my head today of a youtube video I saw awhile back.  The song “New Again” which Brad Paisley and Sara Evans sing is so precious…and with the video to go with it, it ALWAYS brings tears to my eyes no matter how many times I’ve seen it.  If you have about 6 minutes to spare please consider watching this video.  You won’t be sorry.  I can’t even imagine how Mary would have felt watching her son on the cross.  I know how much it hurts me to see Jesus there because of my sins, but I’m overjoyed that God sent Jesus for me and for you so that I can be forgiven of all of my sins over and over because I know that He is my Savior and my King.  Happy Advent Season and Merry Christmas!

Some things I’ve learned while raking leaves

So in the two hours it took me to rake the entire front lawn (not bad timing if you ask me), I learned a lot.

I learned that:

-maybe I should have found my own gloves before taking on such a project instead of borrowing Justin’s bigger and non-insulated gloves

-maybe I should have started at the farthest point and worked towards the road

-maybe I should have worn my “play shoes” instead of my new ones (oops)

-maybe I should have gotten my painting jeans and wore them instead of my good ones (oops again)

-maybe I shouldn’t have worn one of my nice jackets

-a tarp is always your friend instead of doing half of it with just a rake

-aleve will be needed for the next few days

-I should know better than to think that I would “just do a little bit” of raking

-I’m way too much of a neat freak to rake leaves

-the wind is not my friend

-leaves are heavy when wet

-it’s a good time while raking to talk to God.  (I had to ask Him to calm the wind and keep the snow away until I finished).

-God is so awesome to know every one of the hairs on our heads because I lost count of the leaves I was raking at 20 jabillionzillion.

-I still have ab muscles somewhere under the “winter protective layer”

-blisters hurt

-snow shovels are surprisingly helpful

On another note…God answered my prayer with a yes and kept the wind pretty calm and once I entered the garage when all finished I literally turned around to shut the garage door and the snow was pouring down.  Awesome huh?

It’s for a God Cause

Yes, I did mean to title this “…God Cause” instead of “Good Cause”.  It’s that time of year when chaos breaks out at the mere thought of what to buy every single person you know for Christmas.  Justin and I like to find somewhere like Samaritan’s purse and donate money in our loved ones’ names as a gift because let’s face it, we are all so fortunate and even the “poorest” of us have way more than we need.  I want to encourage you this season to think of the most important things.  One of them being “love your neighbor as yourself”.  Give the gifts worth giving.  I know Justin and I would LOVE for anyone to donate money or things to others in need over a present for ourselves.

Now with that said.  If you are looking for a great “God Cause” to donate to this season, I just happened to know of one.  Our former church Crestview Baptist Church in Shelby, NC is sending a team over Christmas (they are leaving their own families on Christmas morning) to Moscow, Russia for a mission trip.  Justin and I have had the awesome privelege to go on three mission trips with them and have watched a church form and grow from nothing in an area with millions of people.  They are lacking about $3,000 for the trip.  I know that God will provide for them for they are doing His work, but maybe you are one of the pathways He plans on using.  Your money will go much farther providing for this mission trip to lead people to Christ than in Toys R Us or Best Buy this season.  This would be a life changing gift for someone.

If you would like to donate (please pray about this) here is the info:

Crestview Baptist Church

704-487-7485

1090 Old Boiling Springs Rd
Shelby, NC 28152

Or if you want…just leave a comment here that you are interested and I will contact you individually.  Thank you for your donation and the blessing you are willing to give to those you don’t even know.

Matthew 6:18-20

18 so that it will not be obvious to men that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 19“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.